My badass.

I think I’ve said this before, but I’ll say it again:

The goal is NOT to sleep with an endless amount of women.

The goal is NOT to just sleep with any hole that’s available to you.

The goal has always been,

to FIRST understand what you want in a woman,

to THEN find out what kind of woman suits your CURRENT lifestyle the most,

And FINALLY after understanding these two things,

to go and CHOOSE that one woman you want to build something greater with.

I don’t think young guys understand this... but after a certain age the whole body count metrics just becomes so silly.

You realize that there are tons of guys who have a high body count, but they are literally losers.

They have nothing going on for them, they have no mission, they have no higher calling.

Nobody respects them.

Even the women they sleep with end up being hookups, one night stands, or short flings.

It’s a complete waste of human potential.

A one-way ticket to a hollow existence.

Hollywood makes such guys seem like legends, but in real life they’re just depressed losers.

BUT–

I’m NOT saying..."don’t have these experiences"

(Yes– the hookups, the one night stands, and the short flings, all have their place in a Charming Misogynist's life.)

I’m saying— know when the STOP.

Because knowing "the right woman" for you takes real-life experience to understand.

I know there are tons of books and YouTube videos titled "Green flags in a woman"

But everyone knows the green flags.

Close to family, low body count, no male friends...

It's basic sh1t.

What is even more, most important?

Is knowing which red flags you are willing to look past.

The perfect woman doesn't exist.

ACCEPT IT RIGHT NOW if you want to eventually settle down and start a family.

So the real question comes down to asking yourself this:

– Which red flags you are absolutely NOT going to tolerate.

Maybe you hate tattoos, maybe you hate curse words, maybe you don't like her having male friends

And,

– Which red flags you are FINE living with.

Maybe she's the perfect woman in all areas but she had one previous relationship (aka she's not a virgin) and you are willing to look past that.

This might not be you right now. You might be thinking:

"Noooo MR she MUST be a virgin!!!! No seal no deal!!!"

And that is where the hookups, the one-night stands, and the short flings come into play.

Because this process of KNOWING WOMEN and YOURSELF takes a few heartbreaks, a few hookups, a few one night stands.

( Heck, you learn even more about your own self through those experiences with women. More than any self-improvement course. They’re IMPORTANT for your development as a man.)

This process is needed to understand what do YOU want in a woman.

– No, not what your favorite dating gooroo says you should want in a woman.

– No, not what society tells you to look for in the ideal woman.

– No, not even what your religion tells you to look for.

WHAT DO YOU WANT IN THE WOMAN YOU SETTLE DOWN WITH?

Until you can answer that confidently, do not get into a relationship.

This is why guys who settle down with the first woman they run into usually end up miserable.

Because they're still in the growth phase of their life.

You don’t know whether she’ll be equally as compatible with you as time goes on.

Your tastes will change. Maybe hers do too. The last thing you want is to have everything in life, all the success, all the munney, all the power, but a woman you go home to who makes your life miserable and you sit there thinking:

"Sh1t, this is not what I wanted out of life"

You won’t magically run into “the one”

You will attract her into your life when you know EXACTLY what you want in that woman.

And this will only happen after you experience the ones “right now”

Learn Charming Misogyny before it's too late.

– MR

PS:

In case you skipped through my entire rant (WTF!) and came straight down here,

A quick recap for you.

– Don't get in a serious relationship during your growth phase of life.

– Don't be against hooking up or having short term casual flings, but know when to stop.

– Only settle down with one woman when you can describe "the one" down to what she thinks about when she goes to bed and wakes up.

What are your thoughts on this rant?

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I believe in THIS woo-woo superstition.

Warning: Rant Alert!

The ONE thing.

The Truth.

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